How can you tell if you're really in love?

For many individuals a striking gap exists between the public image of love and their personal history of it. Because film and TV images usually depict love as sensational and glamorous they do not even remotely resemble most people's private experience.

Thus, feelings of inadequacy and internal conflicts can develop.

There is a widespread failure to understand that individuals get hurt because they don't feel loved, not because they don't know how to make love.

Dr Gordon's new book is packed with advice, including: * Ingredients for a successful relationship. * Tendencies that lead people to the wrong partner. * Patterns to avoid in relationships. * How to tell if you have met the right person.